Conviction becomes perceived reality. Two people can look at the same set of hard facts or have the same experience, and come away with two completely different stories on what it meant or what happened. Studies have shown that presenting hard data contradicting a firmly held belief just further entrenches whatever idea that person holds dear in their mind.
I used that for my own benefit as a teenager. I would never eat lunch in the school cafeteria, because even back then I understood that limp microwaved pizza is not a vegetable, and whatever that hamburger patty was made of, beef was probably about sixth on the ingredient list.
During the winter months, that meant I was out in the freezing weather for thirty minutes. If I focused on how cold I was, I would shiver and be miserable until it was time to go to class again. However, if I started telling myself that I was hot, and really started to believe I was hot, the shivering would stop. I would even sing Beach Boys songs in my head to convince myself I was in the tropics, and it worked every time.
Within minutes I would stop shivering, and the cold no longer affected me. I would use that trick a few years later in Navy boot camp. If the situation was hard or physically demanding, I could in essence turn it off and then no matter how far I had to run or how many push-ups I had to do, it was not a problem. My conviction became my reality.
There was also a study where a group of people were given the same diet and weight lifting program. The control group was given nothing, and the test group was given a supplement that they were told would boost their muscle gains, but it was actually a placebo. The group that believed they were taking the magic strength booster had considerable gains in both weight lifted and reps completed over the control group.
That’s why there’s no point in trying to convince someone of anything, really.
Two sayings come to mind. It’s easy to forgive someone for being wrong, but almost impossible to forgive them for being right, and correct a wise man and he will appreciate you, correct a fool and he will hate you.
That’s why I’ll never try to convince anyone to change their eating habits to improve their health or how they feel on a daily basis. All I will say is if you do truly want to change, you need to change your own reality. If you believe a food will taste good, it probably will, and if you believe it will taste bad, then you will hate it.
Whether it does or not is pretty much up to what you want to believe. The film Kung Fu Panda sums it up perfectly:
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